Find a Hobby!

“Audiophile, Stereo System”
Photo by Brett Jordan on Unsplash

I believe hobbies are a really great idea! They can help to keep you busy and not focusing on what Charcot-Marie-Tooth (CMT) is doing to your health. In some cases, they can help you feel better physically and mentally. The fun part is the discovery of what you enjoy!

For me, this was a challenge as I found I have many interests that make great hobbies. Over the years, I dabbled in many hobbies but really didn’t specialize or become really good at any particular one. Mostly, I was limited in free time as I worked a career with a commute of an hour each way, spend time with my wife, dog, and volunteering at church. However, what free time I had, I needed something to enjoy. Before you go all out to pick a hobby, a few things must be considered first.

What do you enjoy the most in life? What keeps your interest and you want to learn more? For me, I love being outside in nature. Pretty much whatever hobby I choose, it’d be great it is was always outside. Unfortunately, CMT does limit some outdoor ability. For example, being outside in cold weather for long periods of time isn’t something that I can do because of the neuropathy in my legs, feet, arms, and hands. BUT, that doesn’t mean I cannot enjoy the outside. Snow skiing, long winter hikes, snowboarding, and the like are not a choice- at least for long periods of time. For me, that doesn’t mean that I cannot take full advantage of the warmer weather and sneak in some activities in the colder.

Having a love for nature, being outside, birds, wildlife, and warm weather, I took up the hobby of landscaping and gardening. At first, it was painful to use garden tools, carry bags of topsoil or Miracle-Gro, and plant any plants including simple annuals. What I found odd though is I enjoyed being outside enough to push myself to enjoy the gardening as painful as it was. I was definitely sore at the end of the day and the next day. However, I noticed I felt better than before I started the project usually within two days. Interesting. Over time, I found this to be a hobby that is great for me.

For me, every hobby cannot be a physical challenge like yard work and gardening. I need something for those days when I am in pain or uncomfortable and need to relax. However, I found that I should not allow my relaxing hobbies to my immediate go-to all the time either. Doing that, would allow the progression of CMT to become more of a problem.

Over the years, I have developed a taste for Classical Music. It started in college and grew especially during the time of the Desert Storm in the early 90s. A buddy was in the war and it was stressful. The music created a calmness for me helping to de-stress. As the years went on, up to now, I have loved the music and began collecting it on CD. As the collection grew, I determined that while the music is great, I know nothing about it. This began a journey of exploring, reading, and listening.

Since i had a new personal computer, which were fairly new things back in the day, I began creating lists of the classical music I had in my collection. These lists served as resources for me to know what classical music I have in my collection, information about the composers who wrote the music, information about the artists who performed and created recordings of the music, and just about anything else I could think of that I wanted to know about my collection of Classical C.D.’S. This was quite the hobby and project until it got difficult to buy new recordings in my area. Since my collection was extensive, I had to compare the works on C.D.’s with lists to be sure I wasn’t duplicating. Ordering C.D.’s through the mail or online (at the time) was a challenge too. I still love the music and do some cataloging.

I will share about two more hobbies which has turned into one of my favorites in my next post.

What are the hobby(ies) you enjoy? Please comment below.

Daylight Saving Time Begins!

Just a reminder so you don’t do like I did in college and arrive late to church! It was so embarrassing to have people leaving the church as I was arriving!

Set the clocks one hour ahead before bed on Saturday night!

Thus the journey begins as we head to spring followed by summer! I always look forward to this time of year as we leave the cold weather behind! Here in Virginia, we could have snow up until late March and even early April. If it accumulates, it will melt fast. A great thing!

Cold Weather, Snow, Ice, Freezing Temperatures

One of the more difficult and frustrating times of my life has been the winter months. It’s cold. It’s hard to get warm. It takes forever to get warm, but not much, or long, to get cold again. I have to admit, it’s annoying.

“Man Shoveling Snow”

Photo by Filip Mroz on Unsplash

For me, Charcot-Marie-Tooth (CMT) causes my lower legs and feet and my lower arms and hands to have neuropathy. I noticed many years ago that I had to be careful handling hot cups of coffee and hot plates of food because I didn’t always know at first that they were hot. As for cold, I have noticed that my feet and hands get cold really quick but I do not always know how cold they really are. Maybe others do too. But, with the neuropathy, it causes you to get hot or cold faster.

One of my issues with the cold weather is I have tasks outside which I have to do but they can be dangerous for me. Until a few years ago, I always shoveled my driveway and sidewalks of snow and brushed off our cars. Even when we would have a huge snow of 5 inches or more. To me, it is my responsibility to take care of my property.

Unfortunately, as I grew older, these tasks and the cold weather became more of a challenge and more dangerous. When I lived in a Northern Virginia neighborhood years ago, I was blessed with a neighbor who would frequently “sneak” and shovel our front walk. She and her husband would get outside early and begin the task to my surprise. I returned the favor a few times too. This was a huge blessing for me. Every once in a great while, a neighborhood teenager would stop by and ask to shovel my walk. I paid them well so they would return if it snowed again but to no avail.

I have to admit, being a man there are traits built within me that drives me to take care of my home and family. I have a hard time allowing others to do tasks that I should do. However, when it’s a matter of “safety,” for me and/or others, involved, it becomes a matter of being safe rather than my male ego. That is easier said than done.

A few winters ago now, my wife and I had moved to the house where we will live in retirement. A huge snowstorm of around 3 feet was predicted and it happened. We would have been stuck except that I learned from neighbors about some teenagers wanting to make some extra cash. I hired them and gave them a decent tip. I wanted them to “think of me” the next time it snowed. I didn’t need to be their first stop or a top priority, I just needed the walk and driveway shoveled.

The next few snowstorms, the boys did think about me and made contact. They came by and shoveled the walk and driveway. This went on for a few more snowstorms until they had the nerve to graduate high school and go off to college. Soon after that, I was blessed with friends who came by and surprised me by shoveling me out.

These two incidents allowed me to step back from something I should not do, safe my male ego and heart without anyone else knowing. I have to admit, it felt good about giving the teenagers cash for their Saturday night dates too. I would have loved someone to have done that for me when I was their age. It’s an ego thing.